"When
we protect people, When we do things for them, When we do not expect
them to be responsible for themselves, We teach them to feel and
act dependent and powerless." Robert Stenstrud & Kay
Stenstrud.
Stop
Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care
About Has Borderline Personality Disorder (Uk)
(Can)
(This the only book written
of its kind that I am aware of, and it is not only very well written,
but I believe will help many families that are being hurt by borderline
behavior. This book will assist families in understanding their
loved one's behavior and thinking. It will help them understand
what is going on inside the borderline when sometimes all the family
can see is chaos. I believe this book will empower many families.
It is important to remember that borderlines are not bad people
and they (we) do not set out to hurt the very ones we love, but
rather their cognitive distortions and chaotic behavior of course
hurt those around them severely. This book should help you find
your way).