If you are in immediate
risk for suicide or self harm, call 911 right away to obtain medical
and/or psychiatric assistance.
If
you are presently in a crisis and/or feeling suicidal, you will
find a list of telephone numbers and /or email addresses below of
caring volunteers. Though these volunteers have received some training,
they are not mental health professionals and are not a substitute
for professional assistance. They are not and am not assuming
the role of your physician or therapist. They are also not aware
of your medical problems and psychiatric diagnoses, which usually
has a dramatic effect on medication and other treatment recommendations.
You must make a medical and treatment plan with your physician and
therapist.
However
most of these volunteers have psychiatric diagnoses and have been
in the trenches just as you are now. They truly know and understand
how much pain you are in. They have been screened and report that
they are well into recovery and are stable. You too can find this
stability in your life, but right now, let's get you out of crisis
and out of risk for self harm.
Feel
free to call any one of these people only during the days and hours
that they list as being available. Calling them any other time is
not acceptable unless you have their direct permission.
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You
must call direct. No collect calls will be accepted unless the person's
bio states it is ok. Please do not ask the volunteers to call you
back unless you read it in their bio.
If
you do not own a phone, I suggest buying a "phone card" and using
a pay phone or a friend's phone.
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If
you are drunk or high you are still encouraged to call if you feel
you are at risk of harming yourself. However no abusive behavior
will be tolerated and your call will end immediately.
The
times listed below are all Eastern Standard Time, United States
of America.
Tiki,
age 19 is fluent in English, Spanish and Japanese.
Chaplain Available
If you wish to email a Chaplain who
has volunteered her time to write folks at the Sanctuary, you will
find Cheryl here. Cheryl
is NOT here to deal directly with high risk suicide situations. If
you are at high risk of hurting yourself, call 911 and write her
AFTER you are safe.

1) Angi: home phone number: 641-424-1817; ICQ#-72555898;
Email: angel1974@catlover.com
my
name is angi and i have had mental problems. at the age of 14 i
was officially diagnosed with bi-polar 2 and borderline personality
disorder.
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i
am a very good friend or even a shoulder to let your tears fall.
i have been there, i used to self injure, and i have tried to commit
suicide and a few times i got pretty close to be dead, i have a
good support system and i would like to add you too, i am 25 and
i have been there where you are now, never give up....i have a saying
called : Never deprive some one of hope for that may be all they
have. i did grow up in a dysfunctional family i went thru abuse
by a medical dr. i have had some days just a huge giant sitting
on me. i am the only one in my household who has a mental illness
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i
am now in full recovery even though those thoughts of self injuring
and overdoses will always be there you just have to lean to cope
with it. just a few month i finally decided that i have to acknowledge
the fact that i will have it the rest of my life, it's just like
being diabetic, but you know that we can overcome this illness and
be able to be able to speak out on behalf of others who have BPD
and are really down right at this moment.
i hope that you got all of what you need from me....i already have
the list for crisis centers and psych. wards, and mental health
centers
3)
Joyce in Arizona. Available to take calls on Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays, both
all day and all night. 480-251-7284
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I am a 36 yr.old female who has been diagnosed with PTSD, eating
disorder (ED) and self injury (DI) and am also a survivor of domestic
and child abuse. I successfully left my abusers both my childhood
abusers and my ex for the things that they have done to me. I realized
that the main thing that got me through all of these situations
is starting to believe in me. When I started to know that I was
worth something and that I deserve to be treated with respect is
when the ball to my recovery started to roll. I realized that my
ED and SI were only ways of me coping that actually took over when
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When I realized this my
problems with them ceased....why did I want to hurt me when others
where doing it already? I had to learn to respect myself....it took
lots of hard work....going in patient....going to groups and having
a one on one therapist to work through all of my issues and to find
the core of my low self-esteem. Even though it was hard work and
I felt like giving up at times today I am happy that I didn't and
I could start to help others in their recovery process.
I
have worked as a crisis counselor on two separate teen lines and
also at a women's domestic violence shelter. I also did work at
a local children's hospital where I worked with families of terminally
ill children....this really opened my eyes and gave me a great will
to live and want to be apart of helping others.
I
found that in my recovery that I needed to be both firm with people
at times and at other times be vulnerable and be able to cry with
them because I understood where their pain was coming from and how
deep it really is. I feel I am a compassionate person and I have
a great respect for life and a great will to live and help others
feel the same.
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