My name is Kelly and I am a 30+ year old Female. 

My husband of 3 years was recently diagnosed with
Adult ADD, and traits of Borderline Personality
Disorder. His mother is 100% Borderline and he has
unknowingly lived with this for 39 years.

The situation just recently came to a head on my 30th
birthday and I left my husband. He sought immediate
psychiatric treatment and we are trying to work things
out. I have begun reading everything I can on
Borderline Personality Disorder, Adult ADD and for
myself, Codependency. I have also started attending
Al-anon meetings and have found them extremely helpful
because of my husband's addictive personality. I
realize I didn't cause it, I can't cure it and I can't
control it. My recovery is about me, not him.

Obviously we have not found the "cure" for any of our
problems yet but we both have hope for ourselves and
for each other.

My email is: kcmmsc@yahoo.com